Verdict On The Tee En Cee

Honestly, do TNC members think anyone can make choices for life in two days?? Am not sure I can at least and especially for something like marriage? Marriage is a gamble. How the hell can anyone guess the odds of a gamble before the set of events actually takes place? And for people like me, the ‘if’ always lurks around the corner. Some people argue that, you still may not be able to know a person even if you spend the rest of your life with him/her. Then you don’t make ‘dumb choices’ obviously...

It may click for some you know, but it can’t click for the entire group or for even half, can it? IMPOSSIBLE.(to be read as 'eempossible not i'm possible'... how lame can I get?? LOL) . It's like the ideal being the real.

In reality, the probability of success would be about 5 couples in 10 Taaruf programs! What more can you expect? Yeah everyone knows 'someone somewhere is made out there for ya' but am not sure me bumping into someone I really wouldn't mind spending the rest of my life with at the Taaruf is a highly probable event. But hope does indeed survive against all odds. (*wonders*)

The only spectrum of society, I think, where the Taaruf can succeed would consist of once bitten twice shy types or those who realized that they don’t really like living with themselves anymore! Or for the widowed.

Well back to me again!! I thinks I cut myself a good deal anyways. The food was good, the weather was just right, me got a chance to improve on my Gujarati language skills immensely, and for a normally picky and choosy person, made quite a few friends!!! The other purpose with which I had started out (*hunt for the One*) got lost, somewhere along the way for lack of...

Anyone interested in fun-filled weekends/ parent-approved speed dating events or for pure, unadulterated time pass or for whoever thinks matches can be made in two days, I can gladly contact the TNC at my community's local Mosque on their behalf!!! (*chuckles*)(commission payable directly to me!!!)

Cheers